perfectionist

How to Stop Being a Perfectionist

Being a perfectionist is sometimes regarded as a positive quality. However, it can make you anxious, resentful and depressed If you are a perfectionist it may come from a place of feeling ‘not good enough’. We attempt to be perfect in all that we do in order to be accepted and to please others. Our…

law of attraction

How Ambivalence Affects the Law of Attraction

If you have tried using the law of attraction and it has not worked for you, it might be because you are sending ambivalent or contradictory energies out into the universe. Read on to find out how to create some clarity and attract what you really want. We may think that we are very clear…

Overcoming Fear

To be unafraid we need to examine where our fears come from. Nearly all of our fears can be divided into two categories Fear of not having enough Fear of not being enough These fears are often socially constructed by those who want us to behave in certain ways.  For example, the fear of being not…